From: Dr Sebby (drsebby@hotmail.com)
Date: Thu Dec 18 2003 - 18:52:06 MST
...well, i stuck to my guns...did a good solid "all or nothin'" pout, and
she came around. we're leaving in about 15 min. now:) if anyone wants to
say hi on the road....cell# 323 481 4305. dont call for an hour or so
though...wont work otherwise. happy christ nailing day to all...i'll be
spotty for the next couple weeks online. (not menstrually)
DrSebby.
"Courage...and shuffle the cards".
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From: "Blunderov" <squooker@mweb.co.za>
Reply-To: virus@lucifer.com
To: <virus@lucifer.com>
Subject: RE: virus: sebby's g/f betrays him!!!
Date: Thu, 18 Dec 2003 13:56:23 +0200
> -----Original Message-----
> From: owner-virus@lucifer.com [mailto:owner-virus@lucifer.com] On
Behalf
> Of Dr Sebby
> Sent: 18 December 2003 1044
> To: virus@lucifer.com
> Subject: virus: sebby's g/f betrays him!!!
>
>
> ...listen to this; sebby plans big adventure north including visit at
> monteray aquarium, passing through S.F. and seeing the redwoods.
followed
> up by visiting my mother and sister and family in the san juan
> islands...plenty of shopping and boating etc... and she sidelines me
for
> 2
> or 3 days(a critical amount of time) so she can appease the request of
her
> nephew - to go with her to see some stupid nutcracker performance!!!!
ok,
> the kids mom(her sis) died a year ago and he's 8...but truly he seems
to
> care more about video games and his friends than musicals. in the
past 10
> months he and she have gone out of their way to see each other exactly
> zero
> times....including turning down 2 of her invitations to visit us here
> because he was with friends or some such crap. these plans of mine
are so
> massive that i am truly truly truly offended and pissed off. im
seriously
> considering...sort of already done...breaking up over the matter. i
mean
> what if i had kidney surgery planned?....would she cancel on me to go
> watch
> a lakers game on tele with the kid? i cant handle this degree of
> 'sidelining'. am i wrong? i dont think so, but if someone does, pray
> tell.
[Blunderov]
Possibly there is some other underlying issue?
In my experience, one of the aspects of a brand new relationship is that
psychological barriers are lowered in order to facilitate the union, but
as the relationship matures some of them are sometimes re-erected in
order to re-assert a separate identity.
One of the wisest things I have ever read in this regard was by a famous
British divorce lawyer who said that REAL trouble in a relationship
occurs when the less dominant partner feels compelled to re-assert their
own identity. It may be that something of the sort is occurring in your
relationship?
I hope your problem is resolvable - good partners are hard to come by.
Best Regards
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